Hijab, the headscarf worn by many Muslim women, has become increasingly visible across the globe including in major cities in the West. Muslim ladies who practice covering their hair encounter either glances, stares or a variety of questions, comments, and criticisms from people in society in their daily lives. Therefore, recognizing the opportunity that these moments provide, we have compiled these questions to demonstrate how to give appropriate, informative and hopefully thought-provoking answers. 

It is important to mention that in recent years, people all over the world have become more informed about Islam than ever before. Since the media and the internet are the main sources of research, it is unclear if they are getting their facts right. If one of them asks you a question, you should be prepared to give well-thought-out, accurate and satisfactory answers. In many cases, they are not merely seeking information, rather they want to be convinced by what you are saying. 

The principal questions we want to address here are the ones that are directed at Muslim women by people who, due to the media, have a vague or incorrect image of Islam. They are often individuals with little or no knowledge about Islam and Muslims, but they are curious and unafraid to ask.

These questions often come unexpectedly; while you are shopping, taking your child to school, or waiting for a doctor’s appointment. Let us start with one of the most common questions:

Question: Why do you wear a scarf? 

Answer: That’s a great question. Allah the Almighty has instructed Muslim women to wear the hijab when they leave their home or are in the presence of non-related men. This commandment is given to us for the sake of protecting our modesty and teaching us confidence in our faith even when we stand out. I trust His wisdom and want to obey His command, which is why I choose to wear the hijab.

Question: Is it your choice or are you forced to wear it? 

Answer: I wear my hijab because it is my personal choice, no one forces me to do so. In the Qur’an Allah has commanded all Muslim women to wear the hijab. I love Allah and I want Him to be pleased with me.

Question: Do you feel hot wearing it?

Answer: Yes, I sometimes do feel hot in my hijab, but no more than anyone would on a hot summer day. In fact, my hijab protects me from the harmful rays of the sun and provides shade for my skin. 

Question: Can you wear short sleeves on hot days?

Answer: Islam does not leave it to individuals to decide how to cover or display their bodies. For specific reasons, Allah instructed both men and women to dress modestly in public. The Hijab must cover every part of a woman’s body except for her face and hands. 

Question: Do you have to wear it at all times? 

Answer:  When I’m home with my family or close relatives, I don’t have to wear it. I wear my hijab if I am going to be seen by a non-related man whether at home or outside. My husband and my male blood relatives including my father, sons, brothers, uncles, nephews and grandfathers are all considered close family members.